If you’ve read our guides to prepping for and finding a couple to engage in group sex, the next think you’ll need to be aware of are the consequences. If you’ve followed our advice, you’ll be emotionally prepared, but it’s important to know what the outcomes of group sex can be.

The more ready you are for these occurrences, the less power they have, and the more you can overcome them and move forward into the next exciting stage of your relationship.

STDs

 Couples that practise group sex are often more safety-conscious than young fuck-buddies. Generally, group sex couples are a little older, as it takes time and self-confidence (not to mention a relatively established relationship) to move into this arena.

Some of them may even have kids, and as such are going to take particular care of themselves. We mention this because there’s going to be a lot of fluids splashing about, and you have to take care. Condoms are an absolute must – you may be fucking relative strangers, after all – and you should insist upon it from your group sex partners, to avoid both infections and – gulp! – accidental pregnancy.

Ultimately, there are twice the number of people in the room, which means twice the amount of cum flying about. Plan accordingly.

Emotional consequences

If you’re prepared, this shouldn’t be a problem, but there are always risks when bringing new people into a relationship that will have been just the two of you for quite some time. You both need to be very secure in yourselves and your relationship for it to be able to take other people in the bedroom.

Jealousy is the main concern – which is why you need to be completely emotionally prepared for other people ‘sharing’ your partner. There’s also the possibility that, with a network of group sex couples, Couple A might fob you off for Couple B a few times in a row, which might be a strange new kind of rejection if you’re friends.

On that note, there’s always the possibility that a couple just don’t want to fuck you. This can be a painful experience, and may force you to take a long hard look at yourselves if it’s something you weren’t expecting. This can be a good thing (and it’s always possible the other couple just aren’t into you that way, but still really like you as people), but be prepared for a unique kind of rejection, that isn’t of the same calibre as being shut down in a club, which you can just pin on you not being on your game. These people may know you.

Group sex is particularly great for women

Less of a consequence than an interesting side-effect – women are far more likely to initiate and get the most out of group sex. Historically women have been very sexually restrained by society (treated as monogamous barter objects/baby-makers in marriage, for example) and this is thought of as one of the reasons women get so much out of experimental, sexually liberating experiences.

If your lady friend isn’t so keen on getting involved, we wouldn’t suggest you bring this fact up, necessarily, but it’s still something to be aware of.

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