If you’re looking at the internet wondering if you’re brave enough to search for a little something out of the ordinary, this is definitely the article that you should be reading right now.

Sex toys for males are the kind of things that even those most sexually evolved guy has trouble admitting he wants to try, let alone actually perusing these kinds of sex toys online and—gasp!—actually ordering one. Silly hang-ups and misconceptions like thinking that using a male sex toy makes you gay or that only losers would order sex toys for men is just the kind of bullshit thinking that keeps guys from missing out on some serious hot fun.

Did you know that your G-Spot is up you ass, guys? This means that using toys like an anal plug or a mini vibrator can and will bring on orgasms that simply blow your mind. If you’re so adamant that this will not be the case for you, you have nothing to lose. Why not give them a shot? No one really needs to know…

But Sex Toys Hurt, Don’t They?

Guys – let’s be serious about this. First, stop being a pussy! Of course there’s bound to be at least a little pain the first couple times and that’s to be expected seeing as how you’re pretty much going where no man has gone before. The amount of discomfort you might feel will depend on a whole range of factors. For example, the size of the anal plug or men’s sex toys you’re using will make a difference. The smaller, the better is probably a good mantra for first-time or beginner anal play.

*Helpful tip – get anal lube that contains a little bit of anesthetic. This is a great tip for someone that isn’t sure of how it is going to feel. The tiny amount of anesthetic numbs the area just enough to take away any potential pain-factor, but you’re still be able to enjoy the great pleasures that anal play can bring.

Anal sex should NEVER be painful to the point where it ACTUALLY hurts. The pain when you feel with anal play is generally more discomfort than pain – this is a hole that things normally exit from so, of course it’ll feel a bit odd when something goes up in there. Letting yourself get really turned on before sticking anything in there will help get you ready, and the more that you can relax the better since the last thing you want is tight and tense muscles all clenched up back there.

But…An Anal Plug?

You don’t have to go straight for the big fat anal plug for the first time you use anal sex toys. If you’re too intimidated by anal toys like butt plugs and probes then check out something like anal beads instead. They’re small, easy to use, and just about the least-scary sex toy you’ll ever come across—though still totally hot and pleasurable, of course.

Go Slow!

If ever there were a time to really pace yourself and take it slow, it’s when you’re experimenting with anal sex toys.

This is not the time to rush or get impatient because the more you try to rush through it; the more likely it is that you’re going to end up hating the experience or getting hurt. So, keep cool and take your time. It’ll be sooooo worth it!

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