It may seem easy enough, especially if you are getting your cues from porn films, but there’s actually more to oral sex than just lapping away at a gal like a dog having a drink! Before you even think of groaning think about how much you’re bound to get in return if you master the art of pleasing her with your tongue. And, in case you need a reminder; blowjobs aren’t exactly a trip to Baskin Robbins, you know? They take a lot of work which is why they’re called jobs in the first place. The least you can do is learn how to go down on her right!

The Clitoris – The Woman’s Tiny Penis

Yup, the clitoris really is like a little tiny penis and if you take the time to really look at it—or a picture of one online—you’ll see what we mean. This tiny little pleasure bud has a hood of skin around it that acts much like a guy’s foreskin does. If you rub your penis over the foreskin it can still feel great, but pull back the skin and touch the head of the penis and you’ve got way more pleasurable sensation. The same goes for her clit and the hood.

Building Up for Better Oral Sex

The key to really touching her clitoris right and blowing her mind with oral sex is to gradually build up the pleasure. This isn’t just about going slow and steady but also taking the time to explore her entire clitoris properly. Start off by lighting rubbing and licking the clitoris as it is, including the area around it and as her arousal builds, which you’ll know by how wet she’s getting and how her body is responding to you. When she’s really turned on, use your fingers to gently—VERY GENTLY!—pull the skin of the hood to the sides so that her little “head” is entirely exposed. Tease it lightly with your tongue, barely touching in and using slow movements and then gradually build up your speed and pressure. Keep at it and she’ll be squealing in orgasmic ecstasy in no time!

Final Pointers for Giving Her Amazing Oral Sex

Now that you know how to pleasure her clit the right way, we have a few final pointers to help you give her the best oral sex ever, each and every time:

• Your hands can work wonders when you use them to pleasure other parts during oral sex, like her inner thighs, her breasts, or even her insides by penetrating her vagina or anus while going down on her.

• The wetter she is the better your tongue and fingers will feel against her delicate bits so use flavored lubes or even just your own saliva to keep things slippery.

• Adding a sex toy like a small vibrator to your oral session can up the erotic factor and also give you a break when your mouth gets tired! Look for small clitoral vibrators like eggs and bullets, mini vibrators, or finger vibrators like the Trojan vibrators.

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