Lust Yourself: Advice for Him

Guys come on – it’s time to start making a difference to your own life. If your sex life is more boring than a film about love with subtitles, it’s time to make a change. It’s time to lust yourself.

Laugh all you want – we’ll get right to the point.

How is your partner meant to make you happy when you don’t even know how to make yourself happy?

It’s very easy for guys to get into a pattern when it comes to solo-time. They search for the same porn, use the same lubricant, do the same routine and generally, end up with the same orgasm at the end of it. Why not liven things up? If you can’t lust after yourself, how can you expect your partner to lust after you?

The good thing about solo time is that you can experiment with new things and feel more comfortable about it. You don’t know all the places on your body yet that you like to be touched; we can pretty much guarantee that. You don’t know what feelings you like or don’t like.

• Have you ever been blindfolded?
• Have you ever used lubricants with different sensations?
• Have you ever used a Flesh Light vibrator for men?

Learning new things is fun and you should most definitely try it from time to time!

It sounds cheesy but in reality, it doesn’t need to be. All it takes is some time and imagination – we are sure you’ve watched enough porn in your time. Why not learn from the professionals? Rather than skipping right to the money shot, why not take your time and watch the build up? You might learn new ways to touch yourself, or new things to try. You don’t know whether or not you are going to like something until you try it. We aren’t talking just fingers-up-bums, but you could always give that a go if you want!

A lot of pressure is put on women to look good and feel good during sex but the same things apply to me. If you have a pair of pants that makes you feel amazing and you know makes your butt look great, put them on and wear them with proud. If you have a special cologne that you save for sexy time, go ahead and rock it tonight! There is nothing out there to say that you can’t go through the same motions to make yourself feel good and to lust after yourself that girls can. Go to the gym, have a tan, get your teeth whitened, get your hair cut, buy a new outfit – do whatever it is that makes you feel good about yourself and do it for you – don’t do it for her.

The thing about relationships is that you very accidentally morph into the person you are dating and rather than being two separate people, you become just the one person. Why not take some time to appreciate yourself – learn the things that you like and have fun doing the things that you enjoy. Once you start to lust yourself, or even just like yourself, the better you will find things will come.

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