Found Your P-Spot Yet?

Some guys have a bit of a phobia about anal sex play, which is a shame because that’s the only way to find his P-Spot, otherwise known as the male G-Spot. If he’s an adept at finding yours, then you might want to return the favour by stimulating yours. All you need is some lubrication. You can either choose a clean and manicured finger or a specially designed sex toy. Don’t just go sticking your vibrator or dildo up there! There are sex toys for men and couple’s sex toys specifically designed for targeted anal and prostate stimulation. Finding his P-Spot is reported to give him the most intense orgasm, and if you couple it with an amazing hand-job or oral then he should experience a powerful ejaculation.

HOW TO HIT IS P-SPOT

So how do you get to it? Make sure he’s relaxed and aroused; give him a massage and some foreplay, and tease him by massaging around his butt – use your tongue to flick around the opening if he’s into it- and apply plenty of water based lubricant to your hand and his anus. Start with one finger, and go slowly. His immediate reaction might be to tense up as he’ll feel like he needs the toilet, so stop for a minute to allow him to relax. Try giving him some fellatio to keep his arousal up. When he’s relaxed a little, you’ll find his P Spot on the front wall of his anus, a roundish lump that will feel different in texture. When you’ve found it, massage with a ‘come here’ motion. If you can, use two fingers. It’s much the same technique as he would use on your G Spot, but be a lot gentler. Let his reactions guide you. Press a little harder when he’s near to ejaculation; combining this with oral or with either him or you masturbating him should give him an orgasm he’ll never forget!

TRY A TOY

Once he’s comfortable with anal play and you’re confident with locating his special spot, you can try a male G Spot massager designed to give him an even more intense sensation. These handy toys may look different from a female G Spot dildo in that they tend to be more ridged and curved. If he enjoys these you might want to get a bit more experimental with butt plugs or anal beads! Although not specifically designed for the P Spot if he turns out to be a big fan of anal he may get a lot of pleasure from these – and you can share them too! You can also progress to using a strap-on on him, and there are strap-ons specifically for the male spot. But I’d wait a while before suggesting that one! Start small, and slow.

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