Do You Really Need Sex Toys in Your Closet?

If you’re a newbie to the sex toy market, you might be wondering if you actually need pleasure giving devices. After all, you do stand to spend a fair amount of your hard earned cash on something that is really just an added extra to even the healthiest of sex lives. Do you need sex toys? Our answer is a resounding yes, and here’s why…

Experimentation

Good sex toys can allow you to experiment without going to whole hog. Anal sex is a great example of this. You might not be ready for a penis to penetrate that entrance, but if you’re curious a small, specially designed anal dildo will allow you to experiment with anal penetration. This lets you get more comfortable with anal play and can be the best first step to anal sex.

Novelty

As any good relationship counsellor will tell you the best way to keep sparks flying in a long term relationship is through novelty. Trying new things, adding new moves to your repertoire, experimenting together, all of these will make sure that you’re still lusting after each other. And what better way to add novelty to your bedroom activities than by bringing in some “marital aids” as they used to be called. A varied sex toy collection will make sure that you never get bored of giving each other pleasure.

Masturbation

It sounds very Zen, but to successfully receive pleasure you must first know how to give pleasure, and that’s especially true for women. Research has shown that women who frequently masturbate and are comfortable with their bodies are more likely to orgasm during intercourse. Knowing your own body will make it easier to teach someone else how to give you pleasure. However, there is obviously a difference between masturbating and making love, which is where sex toys come in. Using a dildo or vibrator is an intermediate step between orgasming through masturbation and orgasming through intercourse, an important point for the many women that find coming through love making difficult.

Pleasure

As silly as it may sound, sex toys are designed to give pleasure, and that’s exactly what they do. If you love sex, love your body and love making yourself and your partner feel great then you need to get to sex toy shopping. Sex toys give you so many more opportunities to feel pleasure, not least because they can give you sensations that your partner just can’t (1most men don’t have vibrating penises, after all). Dildos are hard all night, and your partner will probably require a break before he can get hard again, so why not use sex toys to keep the action going until he’s ready again? Sex toys are just plain fun, and that’s all there is to it.

We’re not saying you need to invest thousands and have a collection of different vibrators for every night of the week, and we’re certainly not saying that you should use sex toys every time you jump in the sack, but a carefully chosen purchase or two can give you so many benefits that no good lover’s closet can really be complete without them.

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