It doesn’t matter how open we ladies are about sex, there is still something about anal sex that we can’t exactly open up about. We know that our men want to do it. Some of us are keen to try it but aren’t sure how to go about it. It’s not the sort of thing you can openly come out with at work with your work colleagues or to your mother, is it?

Before you disregard anal sex – think about it. How can you have an opinion on something that you haven’t tried at least once, preferably twice? It’s not dirty or messy if you do it right. If you’re thinking of doing it for your man (or even if you aren’t) why not learn a few tips from those that have learned the hard way. We’ve all had difficult and embarrassing scenarios arise with anal sex. It’s how you handle it that counts.

First and foremost, you are going to need lubricant. Lots of it. Bucket loads. It might be wise to put on sheets that you don’t mind getting a bit messy. Oil based lubricants especially can leave a mark regardless of how soon you give it a wash. You will want to make sure that you have baby wipes handy to give everything a clean as soon as you can or to mop up anything that might happen.

As much as we want to tell you that your first experience with anal sex is going to be prefect and clean and lovely and romantic, there is a good chance that something will happen, whether you poop on the bed or you knock the bottle of lubricant over. It could be the glass of wine that hits the floor… if you plan for the unexpected; you will come out just fine!

One in four couples has been reported to admitting having anal sex from time to time. That’s just the straight couples! If all these people are doing it on a fairly regular basis, why aren’t you doing it? Are you afraid that it will hurt? Well, of course it is going to hurt a little bit, especially the first time, but there are things that you can do to make the process a lot easier.

For example, you can now buy anal lubricant that actually contains a small amount of a light anesthetic to numb the area somewhat in preparation for anal play. This is a great idea ladies but, at the same time, it is wise to remember that if the area is numb, you won’t always feel any injuries that occur. You want to numb the pain not kill the area completely!

We are not saying that you should go out there and had your ass to every man on a plate, but with someone that you truly love and having a lasting connection and trust with, it can be a very pleasurable experience. The porn star Jenna Jameson was once reported to have said that she had only given her ass up three times to men that she loved, and that doing it for the camera would mean “compromising” herself!

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